Couples

Who it’s for: couples who want to explore together, at any stage, from a first conversation to going further, safely. No judgement, no pressure.

  1. Beginner: exploring together. Talking about it, massage, first toys and lube. The beginner’s guide · Conversation starters
  2. Curious: turning up the heat. Couples vibrators, blindfolds, silk ties, games and role-play. Next steps · Date-night kits
  3. Adventurous: going further, safely. Consent, safe words, aftercare and bondage-lite kit. Going further, safely · Bondage-lite starters

Not sure where you are? Try the couples finder: three taps to ideas for you both.

What it’s for

Things made to be shared: hands-free vibrators, remote-control toys, massage oils and date-night lingerie.

Who it suits

Couples at any stage, from trying a first toy together to adding something new.

How to use it

Choose together and start simple, like a massage oil or a small bullet. Talk about what feels good, and keep lube nearby.

New to the words? couples vibrator · remote-control toy · cock ring · massage candle · consent · aftercare, or see the A–Z glossary.

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Price bands use prices noted in each guide when we checked: £ under £30, ££ £30–£70, £££ over £70. Guides without a noted price show under All.